I’ve left room for her to speak about anything that is bothering her. She says she just gets emotional being close to me. I’ve clarified with her both in the moment and also outside the bedroom to make sure I am not hurting her in any way. Are there ways to practice solo? Like if you practice oral on a banana and break it, you’re doing a bad job? This sounds pathetic, doesn’t it?
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I guess I could watch porn, but I again don’t know how to grade if my technique is good. I don’t even have the benefit of saying I’m a virgin, which would explain why I’m so novice. I have a great personality and career, I take care of myself, and I’m responsible-but I’m bland in between the sheets. So you will have to walk me through this.” I would like to go into a relation confident and self-assured I can perform well. I don’t want to be charming and then sideswipe the guy with, “Oh, btw, I really don’t know how to give good oral or touch you right because I haven’t had a lot of sex.
I know communication with a partner is key to learning what they like, but I don’t want to dive into why I’m terrible or don’t know how to have good sex-won’t it come across as strange? Will it reveal I was spineless and pathetic for so many years? Don’t men want confidence in a partner? I want to be confident and pleasure someone, but I don’t want to share this insecurity because certainly this will be a turn-off. Going straight from clothes-on grinding to insertion is a little terrifying, to be honest, and I think the best I could hope for would be “not in much pain.” Is there a solution for our growing orgasm gap? He suggested that I start riding him instead of giving him a blow job, but I have only been able to take him inside me when I’m relaxed, have come once or more, and have plenty of lube. Fingering is hit or miss for me, so that’s pretty much out. He loves making me come when we’ve been able to have sex in an actual bed, but neither of us know how that would work in a car-I love receiving oral more than anything, but it takes me a while to get off and neither of us knows how that would work in such a tight space. My main issue is that the sex itself is almost always one-sided because of the location and time constraints-we move to the backseat, he sits with me on top facing him, we make out and I grind on him until I feel he’s hard, and then I give him a blow job. It’s a rural town with little traffic/police, so getting caught isn’t super likely. We are following the usual protocol of going to isolated places and keeping it quick, especially when there’s still daylight. Obviously, it’s not something that one can brag about, but what do men mean when they say this? I guess it’s a compliment-but is it, really? I’ve only turned down one, and that one was way too big (he was OK with that). I do Kegels regularly if that makes a difference, and I’ve had various sizes of penises over the years that fit comfortably. My doctor has never noted anything out of the ordinary during routine exams.
Sex has never been painful since then, and I’ve also given birth.
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I know that women will tell men that they’re big or well-endowed as a compliment, but do men do the same with women? Tell them that the fit is tight or snug, even if it’s not? I’ve recently started seeing someone new, and he constantly remarks on my “tightness.” I can’t ask my girlfriends about this because who is going to say that they are loose? And what defines loose, anyway? And what defines tightness? When I first started having sex, it took several sessions before my boyfriend was able to achieve full entry. Throughout my dating life, I’ve had men comment on the “tightness” of my vagina over and over. Have a question? Send it to Stoya and Rich here. How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column.
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